24th August 2005

How do they do it?

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Am I a failure, if I need someone to watch my kids 2-3 days a week, so I can get “work” done? These last two days have really encouraged me to accept this “failure” and get done what needs to be done.

Last night, before dinner, Baby K was playing in the upstairs, and I was working on the laptop. With my acknowledged hearing loss and the lack of a baby monitor, I’ve found it more comfortable to work on the laptop upstairs while she sleeps in her crib. But yesterday she was playing in the upstairs. I was happily working away when I heard a huge thump and crash from the kitchen. Believe it or not, she had climbed ontop of the kitchen table and came crashing down. On her forehead. Which answers the question- which is harder, oak or bone- but also which is harder- oak or flesh; she has a huge purple black bump on her noggin.

Today, I can’t get the dogs to quiet down. They spend too much time in their kennels anyway, and they’re “just being dogs” wrestling over a ball. I think the ball was just an excuse to rough house. Baby K thought this was entertaining, except that they were wrestling over her ball. So I had screaming kid, growling play-angry dogs. Finally, I gave up and took Baby K downstairs to play “quietly” while I work on the big computer.

Remember that we moved the scrapbooking area downstairs?

I heard a thump, and some crying, and then some more crying, and then she started to get angry. I came out to find her, with her arm stuck in a drawer of the plastic craft carts, clutching a ball, with the cart pulled over on top of her.

I gave up; she’s in the crib, actually sleeping now, and I’m on the laptop. How do other daddies handle this? I’m going to need professional help.

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  1. 1 On August 25th, 2005, Megan Hunt said:

    Dave and I bought a baby monitor and we don’t use it now. We would love to send it up to you if it would help you out. Let me know

  2. 2 On August 25th, 2005, Dean said:

    By the time Emily came along (1978) and both my parents were working, they joined a babysitting co-op. No money was exchanged, it was just a group of parents. Every kid and every hour was worth one coupon, so dropping your girls off with someone for 2 hours would be 4 coupons. Then you sometimes announce to one or two people that you’re available to take their kids for 2 hours, and that’s how you earn your coupons back. Everyone gets 10 coupons to start, and no reprints; when you’ve used up your stock, you HAVE to host a kid or two for an hour or two to replenish your supply. If you’re in need of an or or two a day on weekdays, you can announce a “Saturday morning party” and take 5 or 6 kids in your backyard for a 3-hour block; presto! You’re back in the black. Keep it in mind!

  3. 3 On August 29th, 2005, JH said:

    Man, and I thought 16 feral kittens in my bathroom was stressful.

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