4th May 2008

Waitstaff

posted in Frenzied Daddy |

One weblog I enjoy is Waiter Rant. His writing voice sounds understated and dry. It’s fun because he scathingly characterizes some of the more colorful people he waits on. His characterizations are really good.

I was a waiter, once. Well, twice. I worked at Red Robin, which is a chain of family-and-college-dining, where their main foodtype is hamburger. I remember starting work there as a busser; one of the waitstaff took me aside and told me a few secrets. Basically, they explained that bussers get tips from the waitstaff and the more tips the waitstaff made, the more the bussers would make. Some of the bussers didn’t work very hard and focussed only on clearing tables that the customers had left from, but whatever I could do to improve the amount of tips the waitstaff were getting would be appreciated. After all, the waitstaff could clean off tables too.

I like to think I was a damn good busboy. Because I focussed on helping the waitstaff- running food, refilling drinks, whatever. Of course, the best help I could do was to clean tables, because a section with no clean tables didn’t get sat and they didn’t get any more customers. And who likes eating around dirty tables? So, if all the tables were clean, I would help with other things.

After a while, I was “promoted” from busboy to waitstaff. It was really the same thing, just with a different focus; my job was to help the customer have the best meal that week. Ok, so Red Robin’s not cafe zinfandel or the bijou; it’s a family restaurant, it’s not high class; some would say I wasn’t a “real waiter.”

It was interesting reading today about how he’s seeing the change in tips. On one hand, the entrees at his place have gone up. So a 20% tip on a $30 meal was once $6, but the meal’s gone to $40 and the tip is $8. Unfortunately, with the economy having changed for the worse, he’s seeing fewer 20% tips because people are saving their money. Most of the non-regulars are tipping at 15% or so, instead of the 20 he was getting last year.

My opinions on tipping aren’t hidden. I firmly believe in tipping well. The difference between a poor tip and a great tip is only a few dollars ( in the price range i usually spend ). My family goes out for a meal and it’s $40? If I bump it from $48 to $50, that’s two bucks out of my pocket but it’s an extra 5 percent on the tip. And the feeling a waiter gets when they get tipped that much extra is more than worth it.

What I hate about tipping is “15% of the total will be added as a gratuity for parties of 6 or more.” If it’s a gratuity, it’s not required. Gratuitous violence? Ring a bell? Hello?

And his reflection on how much his tips dropping affects his groceries sucks. If everyone is tipping less, he can’t buy the food he wants. It’s like swapping rice and beans for tri-tip and potatoes. And I feel his pain.

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  1. 1 On May 4th, 2008, Rachel said:

    I usually tip 20%, unless the service is lousy. And because I like seeing whole dollar amounts on my restaurant transactions, I will round up to the next whole dollar. I have you and Dean to think for my good tipping skills… :)

  2. 2 On May 4th, 2008, BlueNiner said:

    I too struggle with the whole concept of tipping. It is suppossed to be a “gratuity” which I should be free to grant or withhold based on the overall service experience… But the reality is that employers factor the ‘tip’ in the employee’s salary and the feds actually tax the ‘expected’ tip amount based on that base salary… and SOME employers actually charge their employees the 4% credit card companies charge them for processing their cc charges on the ‘tip’ that is added to the receipt. Thus VISA and MC are effectively taking a cut out of the tip you are leaving… Bottom line is that if you do not tip you are short changing the employee’s pay check. Since this is the reality how about we just increase the menu amount 15%, pay the employees a living wage, and drop the whole concept of tipping…

  3. 3 On May 8th, 2008, Alli said:

    I struggle with the whole tipping thing, more as an idea then the actual 15% to 20% on the bill. In addition to the “gratuity included with parties of 6 or more”… etc. I find I am frustrated with the wide range of places I am now expected to tip… and encouraged to tip at. I tend to forget to tip when getting my haircut, thou its expected nowadays. Tip jars now appear at the coffee shops, to places where you get the food at the counter and bus your own table. What is it ok to not tip for?

    Part of my struggle with it is the economic factor. I live in one of the few states with out a tip credit. I dont make much over base wage myself. So I pretty much just stick to tipping for good, friendly service. I dont tip at “insert large coffee chain here” places. I do tip at the local coffee joint where they know me, however I generally only tip a couple of the people, the ones that take extra care with my drink.

    I find the tip jar that is out on the counter at differnt places.. that are marginally service oriented more of a deterrent, an unposted additonal tax.

    /ramble off
    Alli

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