9th December 2008

Responsibility is Humbling

posted in fathers, Frenzied Daddy |

Last night was the DQ’s choir recital at the church.

Let me be honest. Her singing is terrific. I can’t imagine from where she got her sense of pitch and her sense of rhythm, both of which contribute also to her clarinet. Her other arts, also fabulous. Her drawings are great and her stories are remarkable. And, frankly, I just recently came around to having her tested for TAG. She’s brilliant.

Yeah, she reads this too. Hi hon. Don’t get too swelled a head, mkay?

So I’m sitting there holding Miss K, listening to the bell choir and then to the other choirs and Miss K is also singing. Singing in the songs, in the response songs, she’s got half the words and most of the song and rhythm. And that’s just from sitting in my lap! At the same time, she’s “drawing a picture” for her sister (to be honest, not one of her more intricate works, but she had some other great pictures that night).

And then my world tilts slightly and I realize- if I want my kids to go to Julliard or to some other art school, it’s going to have to be on a scholarship. While we make “decent” money, there are no reserves and the bills almost exactly match the income. And it’s my responsibility to make sure that my daughters have the education that their talents need. How do I get them what their muses ne in order to help them down the road?

That’s the deal. I (we parents) supply the knowledge and get out of their way.

Right?

There is currently one response to “Responsibility is Humbling”

Why not let us know what you think by adding your own comment! Your opinion is as valid as anyone elses, so come on... let us know what you think.

  1. 1 On December 10th, 2008, mom said:

    Hmm…I think that’s called an epiphany. You are right–we do have to supply the knowledge & then get out of the way but we also have to prime the pump & put some paving on the road. In other words, we have to keep re-orienting them to their path by finding ways to enrich these experiences. Scholarships, for example, will be easier to win if kids are taught what scholarship is, if they go to schools where scholarship is honored, if their some of their peers are on the same path. I don’t think it’s just about art school as colleges look at how well rounded the student is. In DQ’s case, her art & her music also support her academics.

    Enough soapbox! They are such great kids! I have a video from the choir when Miss K was singing–you can hear her.

Leave a Reply

Bad Behavior has blocked 200 access attempts in the last 7 days.